I saw this article today and it worried me.
This lady has been sent to Prison for 10 years for making false allegations. There is no denying there is a similarities or the patterns in play here.
Lady Justice Hallett told the Old Bailey: “This case went far further then myths and stereotypes about a complainant’s behaviour. The appellant was accused of being a serial liar who fabricated accounts mostly of a sexual nature.”
I don’t want anything like this to happen in my case but it is my belief that she is in serious danger of heading this direction. Her sexual allegations have been sexual abuse by her father from the ages of 3 to 14, sexual harassment by a college classmate, sexual assault by a boyfriend, sexual assault by the next boyfriend, sexual harassment and assault by a security Guard and now sexual abuse by me from the ages of 13 to 21 although she claimed this was consensual at her first report.
This does not include the allegations against school where she accused the staff of bullying her, a childcare setting where she accused the staff of threatening to kill the children, a holiday park where she accused the manager of breach of health & safety or more recently a nursery school manager (who was a close friend) and most of the staff of abusing a special needs child.
In the middle of all that is countless reports that she made to social services about children that were known to us, reporting their parents for abuse and she even reported her best friend at school for neglecting her child.
I believe there is a psychological illness there and that this is not a malicious person. I still see her as good as loving and kind, and desperate!
Maybe I’m fooling myself but people don’t change overnight. Those feelings don’t just disappear. That good person is still in there somewhere. I just hope she finds her and finds some logical sense to be her again before my time runs out. She asked for a year – that is almost up!