Author: Path of Destruction

Being There:  No Substitute For Showing Up

Being There: No Substitute For Showing Up

Hindsight is wonderful, regret is torture, risking it is not worth it

thelifeididntchoose

I totally get itwe areALLso busy.

Calendars crammed weeks and months in advance and no white space left over to pencil in lunch with a friend even though we desperately NEED it.

It seems impossible to make that call, write that note or stop by and visit a few minutes.

How can I meet my obligations if I use precious time doing the optional?

But when the unexpected, unimaginable and awful happens, suddenly that calendar and all those appointments don’t matter.  Balls drop everywhere and I don’t care.

Because when your family or best friend needs you, you come-no questions asked.

You toss a few necessities in your carry-on, lock the door, unplug the coffee pot and RUN.

You connect that phone to the car charger and dial away as you drive down the road.

And you show up.

Because when someone needs you, REALLY

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A day in the life …

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Just Overwhelmed

The support on this site has gone beyond what I could imagine. However I have been reading the Twitter posts and it seems its a very emotive topic right about now. I have no idea why people need to make false allegations and destroy other people but it seems they do. In this case Candi … Continue reading Just Overwhelmed

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